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Can you be asexual but jerk off a lot?

I jerk off to porn sometimes two or three times a day but the idea of having sex with another guy makes me extremely anxious and the few times it happens it's almost like I separate from my body and become a viewer of what is happening.

by Anonymousreply 14April 5, 2020 5:26 PM

You may not like having sex with other people, but you are not asexual if you are aroused by watching porn.

by Anonymousreply 1April 5, 2020 7:43 AM

Everything makes Millennial scum anxious. Good thing many of them will kill themselves.

by Anonymousreply 2April 5, 2020 7:46 AM

[quote]the few times it happens it's almost like I separate from my body and become a viewer of what is happening.

Because you're so conditioned watching so much porn.

by Anonymousreply 3April 5, 2020 7:50 AM

[quote] but the idea of having sex with another guy makes me extremely anxious

Gurl, what is you so anxious about?

by Anonymousreply 4April 5, 2020 7:51 AM

I knew a guy that was a sexual. He wasn't attracted to anything. It was actually a really good looking guy he told me that when he was in his preteens he would have a lot of wet dreams because he never jerked off.

He said if he was gay I would be the first person he would tell. I saw him online is really buff now. I don't think he still has sex

by Anonymousreply 5April 5, 2020 7:54 AM

Fuck off R2 I'm GenX so go shove a shotgun up your loose hole pull the trigger and make the world a much better place.

by Anonymousreply 6April 5, 2020 7:55 AM

R6 as if, Millennial scum. Your cuntiness gives you away.

by Anonymousreply 7April 5, 2020 8:02 AM

[quote]Can you be asexual but jerk off a lot?

No that just means you're not having sex with anyone. An asexual does not watch porn and jerk off 3 times a day.

by Anonymousreply 8April 5, 2020 8:05 AM

adjective 1. without sexual feelings or associations. "asexual individuals may still experience attraction but this attraction doesn't need to be realized in any sexual manner" 2. BIOLOGY (of reproduction) not involving the fusion of gametes. "each polyp is capable of budding new polyps though asexual reproduction in spring" noun a person who has no sexual feelings or desires.

by Anonymousreply 9April 5, 2020 8:10 AM

[quote]I jerk off to porn sometimes two or three times a day

You can be asexual and masturbate. It's like putting a detachable shower head on your dick because you like how it feels but you're not actually thinking about anyone at the time. It just feels nice but you don't NEED to do it.

If you feel the need to masturbate to porn because there are "sexual feelings" attached to what you're watching (or about what you're seeing) then you are not asexual.

You can be asexual and be in a relationship but if you're motivated by anything other than spending time with the person because you like spending time with them or rather you enjoy thinking about them sexually / in sexual situations then you're not asexual.

You may still have sex but you're not going to enjoy it. It does nothing for you. You may be doing it because you want to have a kid. You may be doing it because your partner isn't as asexual as you. It's not going to be something you want or focus on though.

You want to have sex OP, you're just nervous and you probably have some other issues you should talk to a therapist about. You're not asexual though.

Also: some asexual people do have sexual desires BUT it's nowhere near what anyone else would feel. It's very much not enough to do anything about. They would not be masturbating multiple times a day.

by Anonymousreply 10April 5, 2020 8:39 AM

OP has intimacy (trust?) issues.

[quote] ... and the few times it happens it's almost like I separate from my body and become a viewer of what is happening.

Possibly childhood trauma of sexual abuse.

OP, if he's not an EST or a basic troll, should invest in mental therapy.

by Anonymousreply 11April 5, 2020 10:41 AM

Are monks asexual? Does celibacy permit masturbation?

by Anonymousreply 12April 5, 2020 11:11 AM

Webmaster! Stealth Aspergers thread!

by Anonymousreply 13April 5, 2020 11:12 AM

OP, I'm kind of like that. I'm 67, and have always been attracted to men, but I don't really enjoy sex at all. I have too many issues about odors and cleanliness. So it's solo porn for me. I do like kissing, making out, body contact, etc. -- but I don't get anything out of oral or anal sex (giving or receiving.)

by Anonymousreply 14April 5, 2020 5:26 PM

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